David,
What is the point of that? What possible good can be accomplished by going off on TEPaul when he re-enters thus discussion with fairly genuine sounding offer to help forward thus discussion?
If you're upset about things he said before - fine. A number of us made comments about some of the unfortunate statements Tom had been making recently. But as far as I can tell, those behaviors stopped for the last several weeks as Tom stepped back.
Perhaps he stopped and reflected on those things. Maybe he didn't.
But it seems to me that there was nothing in that last post warranting that reaction.
Kevin,
To say that I am upset about TEPaul's past behavior and his return understates the matter in the extreme. He has gone so far over the line with me and on so many occasions that the thought of even having a conversation with him makes my blood boil. His last transgression was malicious and actionable libel
per se, defamation at its lowest and most blatant, made worse by the fact that he had purposefully spread the EXACT SAME LIES about me in the past. While I appreciate that a few posters were appalled and said so, that by no means sets things right or corrects the damage done, and it by no means prevents him for digressing into his abhorrent behavior as soon as anything doesn't go his way, or just getting carried away agian late at night as some sort of sick joke.
I do my best to make a contribution here, and I think some would agree that I have added to our knowledge of the history of golf course design, and have provided interesting and valuable information. My efforts should not have to face such garbage and lies, yet surely further insults and defamation await me as soon as he again loses control. After all, he has repeatedly and publicly promised to do do all he can to tear me down and ruin my reputation, and has been attempting to do so for at least four or five years now. Is it reasonable to think he will suddenly stop? I don't think so. Everyone who knows him - including Ran - must realize that he cannot control himself and that it is only a matter of time until he comes after me again.
As for Tom "stepping back" and reflecting on his behavior, you have got to be kidding me. Surely the only reason he wasn't posting was because he wasn't allowed to post. And the idea of his using this time away to reflect upon his past behavior and change his ways? That is even more of a joke. During this supposed contemplative respite he still managed to find time to send insulting emails to my personal email. Here is an excerpt:
"You guys give all other half-baked amateur historians a good name by comparison. Your lack of knowledge, understanding and your limited information on the history of that club is about on par with your lack of knowledge, understanding and limited information on Merion."Does that really sound like he was reflecting on and contemplating changing his ways to you? When I told him to stop contacting me not only continued to contact me, he even questioned why I wanted nothing to do with him! It apparently hadn't even occurred to him that I might have good reason to be pissed off, as if he was somehow immune from consequences. He even had the nerve to tell us that we needed to quit discussing Myopia until he got around to telling us what really happened. Hardly reflective contemplation aimed at more productive participation.
As for his offer to go to Myopia and obtain accurate information about the club, he must think we are complete fools, and unfortunately your response plays right into that idea. He has been telling us for years that
he already conducted a review of the very same documents he now claims he will go see! Supposedly he has already gone over these club records, but it turns out now that those very records that he claims he has reviewed may have been lost sometime before 1940! Yet he has not only been insisting that he had seen these records, he repeatedly claimed that these records contained specific information and that we needed to take his word for it! Must of that information has turned out to be mistaken and unreliable.
Trust TEPaul, who occasionally even fudges the contents of existing source material? No way. When he did not think anyone would be able to check up on it, he deleted key words from a S. Dacre Bush quote, and
tried pass off the falsified quote as real. (He had done the same thing on the Merion threads; deleting the key sentence out of a Alan Wilson letter when he thought no one else had it to verify it!) Outrageous.
Yet you think it is a productive step for us to put our faith in him to tell us what happened at Myopia? I don't agree. Surely this is just the latest attempt to exert control over the history of a golf club, and to dictate to us what the history is without allowing any questions or vetting. Just like with the rest of the clubs where he has pulled the same thing.
This all may sound harsh, but every bit of it is accurate and I would be glad to document any or all of it if you are interested. And this is only Myopia. It barely touches on the numerous other deceptive and dishonest games he has been playing on other threads and about other issues.
In short, while I cannot control how Ran administers his website, it is too much to expect me to not express how I feel about Ran allowing TEPaul to return, and it is much too much to expect me to greet him with open arms. He deserves a far worse response than he has received thus far. Some day he will get his just reward, but for the here and now I want nothing do with him.
So if you want to hide your head in the sand and pretend like the slate is clean, then go ahead. I won't stop you, but I'll not join you either. But I will try channel my anger into something more productive. Except perhaps for a bit of unfinished business, I want nothing to do with him. He is not worth it.