I think we're in the midst of a fundamental philosophical change with regard to the viability of private club membership from the perspective of the consumer.
My sense is that in the past, the adage was "If you are worrying about how much your membership costs, you can't afford it." Which I take to mean that a club membership was a luxury and the mere possession of it carried some acceptable intangible value - social status, a built-in sense of community, etc. - on top of the tangibles, like one's enjoyment of the course and other amenities.
The tangibles are the same, but I think the current pool of potential club members assigns less value to the intangibles, meaning that it is more important that the membership make some straight-up financial sense than it used to be. The quote above no longer applies.
We may agree or disagree about the particular reasons for this, but I would look at the sense-of-community aspect as a big part of the reason why clubs are not as strong as they were. To wit:
- My generation (b. 1989, so I'm a Millennial) and the ones adjacent seem to feel more able to join a meaningful community "for free" than previous ones. I think the flow of information (social media is a huge part of this) is the main driver.
- I think younger people now have more diverse social groups than they used to, and while clubs have increasingly diverse memberships (some have come along more slowly than others), there's still an entrenched image of the club as...well, I think you can insert the adjectives here. This image has not been combated in any meaningful way in recent years. (This is a problem all across golf, by the way, and it will persist until some pretty significant changes to the main golf institutions happen, IMO.)
- No matter how welcoming a private club is to guests, I think people are more conscious/wary than ever of power dynamics in any setting. I feel an inherent discomfort when I'm hanging out in a place where I know most of the people around me are paying good money for the privilege. A contemporary group of friends would rather hang out in a setting where they all "belong" equally.
Clubs are going to have to learn quickly who they are, and devote all their energy to being their most authentic selves. It seems like Sweetens Cove, which focuses pretty much 100% on the golf course, and lets that be The Thing, is a pretty good "golf club" model going forward, even though SC specifically, because of location, is more of a destination than a club. Great course, no other frills, lowest possible cost for the best product that serves the audience efficiently.
I'm not sure what the modern "country club" needs to do/look like to be relevant and successful like it was in the heyday while somehow being significantly more affordable. There may be no going back.