Garland,
It appears you are trying to be quite argumentative, but in general, AG and Mark Fine's comments may possibly sum up the general thinking related to forward tees.
Also, I didn't say I didn't consider average women golfers. I meant to note that they are the one appointed to the green committee, similar to most men. However, I always ask for a cross section. On public courses, I usually have to go with my gut, based on past experience. At clubs, the longer, more competitive women have to be asked to think in terms of the lesser skilled women, and often they do. I have done tee plans where only 12 or 13 of the tees allow reaching in regulation. Philosophically, unless prohibited by topography, it seems ridiculous to stop there.
In the case of par 5 holes, many women can't reach over 380 yards in three shots. I always ask if they mind if distance drops below the minimum 405 set by the USGA. Some say make all par 5's 405. Others say that senior tees have played under 470 yards as a par 5 for years, so why be hypocritical. So, yes, there are still some who disagree with the shorter tees and the degree to pursue them. And, I can imagine at some clubs they are rejected. I just haven't seen it yet.
As to Mark's comments about good players losing their advantage, back in my Killian and Nugent days, we had one club who changed a 170 yard par three (red tees) several times. The husband of the longest hitting woman golfer got on the committee solely to restore the length of that hole, since his wife was the only one who could reach it, winning her many matches. The next year, the husband of a shorter hitting wife got on and moved the tee back up, only until the next year when...….probably the most stark example I have.
At La Costa some in the women's league went so far as to tell us their forward tees (at 6000 yards even) were mandated by the So Cal Golf Association for their tournaments. We checked, they lied or were wrong. And again, tees were still left in that location for those who wanted to play there, but after the fact, more and more women played up at 4400 yards.
Again, agree there are varying opinions, just relaying my experience on the subject, sine I have been doing it ten years.