Guys--
A bit of truth in all of your remarks, but let me try to put some perspective on this.
Yes...I busted my butt when I was working and generally loved it. I am a Type A and love to work to achieve goal, solve a problem, get something done, improve a situation... I retired for the first time in 2001 without a goal...and within a year was bored and went back to work (for about 6 years). I re-retired in 2008 about 4 months after marrying my wonderful bride, Pat. Having learned something, I knew I had to have some sort of goal to keep the mind and body going. I had always wanted to complete a USA or World Top 100 and decided to start to go for it methodically. Why...because it was "there" (btw...by using that phrase I am not suggesting that it is equivalent to climbing Mt Everest...it ain't). Why do people choose to run 26 miles 385 yards?...because it is something to achieve, it is "there"...rationally it is purely arbitrary distance, but running it is very different that running 25 miles or 30 miles (I ran there marathons in the early 80's). And btw, my guess is that there are lots of people who come to Ran's website who have a similar goal.
Tony--Playing random courses near me would be easier, less expensive, etc...but it would not be the same...it would be like running 25 or 30 miles instead of 26-385. Also on average I guarantee that I saw more interesting courses this way...and I really did learn a lot about architecture over time even when I was on a course I did not like. I some cases, I even changed my views, often mid-round.
I absolutely believe that keeping the mind and body going is critical for good mental and physical heath in later years. These trips obviously stress me physically but the harder part is planning them. It is like a giant jigsaw puzzle, and that part is a real challenge to the mind.
Some of you may think of lots of other things to do with your $$ and time...and that is great, go do them. That is your choice. So long as your choice (or mine) does not harm others or is not illegal, we should all follow our dreams.
These trips give me a rush...I can feel the adrenaline flowing. The best ones are the ones that Pat chooses to take with me. But understandably, she hates trips spending only 1 or 2 nights at a location....so she avoids those like the plague. But arriving back home to her is the greatest feeling (you might be thinking "yes, it feels so good to stop hitting your head against a wall"). She has been the best and I am so lucky to be with her.
One last point (for now)... I have a total of 13 courses left to complete my three main bucket lists (Top 100 Ever per 8 Sources, MacWood 1939 Spoof list, and US Open Venues)...and the 13 are in GB&I (6), Continental Europe (1), USA (2), Canada (3), and the Caribbean (1), so my big trips are over. I hope to do these 13 in the next 2-3 months, and frankly cannot wait to finish. I am a "prisoner" of these lists (a role I chose), and look forward to the freedom of going back to the great ones (that I have only played 1x or 2x) and really learning more about them. But I am sure I will still have a bucket list or two that i will be working on.
Anyhow, keep the cards and letters flowing
Best
Paul