As I read Dick’s and Jason’s threads, many of the responses more or less echo my own. My epiphany came about 5 years ago on a trip to Ireland. I spent the first week with a group of new friends led by an ex-super who has become a standup comic. Play golf, get on the bus, and laugh all the way to the next course or hotel. The next week, just in case I never make it back, I played all the other courses I wanted to see. It was October, so I ended up playing many of the rounds solo. The contrast between the experiences was so dramatic, I began to question why I travel to play these great courses. Traveling alone and playing solitary golf provides plenty of time to ponder many things. However, I more or less concluded that my golf education was about as good as it was ever going to get and that, for me, golf is basically better if shared with friends. Also, that if I had practical reasons to apply what I learned (I do every day), such as building, maintaining, renovating, and running a golf course, that too is a collaborative activity that involves as many good and talented people as you can find and afford. In other words, no matter how much you know, you still need good people to pull it off.
Since then I’ve seen a few new courses, but I don’t think I’ve played another solitary round just to study the architecture. Some of my favorite rounds have been with golf architects, builders, and passionate people who cherish great design. I also enjoy taking average golfers to see good to great courses and seeing them experience exceptional golf. However, bottom line, it’s all about spending time with friends, new and old. I make changes all the time to my course. I’ve designed new holes and changed routings. Despite all I have learned, my first move, if I were able to renovate our course and make it better, would be to hire expert, creative designers and builders.
As for running around or staying home, it’s all about the people you do it with and meet along the way. That’s golf on almost any level.