I will take a shot at that since you are addressing my response...
"Why play the game if you aren't interested in getting better?"
I am not at a point on my life where I have the time to dedicate to getting better. I have two kids, neither of whom play golf, but are both very active in other sports. I have a job that keeps me busy. In an ideal scenario would I love to get better, sure. The reality is I practice none and I play all of my golf crammed into extended weekends.
So that's why I am not "interested" in improving.
So why do I still play?
Well, I love the course, the friends, the employees, and the atmosphere at the place I play. It is like a second home to me. I'm not sure what I would do without those few weekends to get away from everything else and relax a few times a year.
I am certainly thankful that the owner, the architect, superintendent, and members don't share your view on width as it applies to the course.