Pat,
I've said before that your home course, Mountain Ridge, has the best opening hole in New Jersey. Beautiful to look at with an elevated tee and a great view of the ridge in the distance, classic Ross fairway bunkering, and attractive fescue far left. A very challenging par but also quite fair. Allows you to be aggressive off the tee and think about attacking tough pin positions to make birdie, or play it safe off the tee and aim for the middle of a very interesting green with your second shot. An ideal opener in my mind.
I also was lucky enough to pay Friars Head today. Wow, that is a great opener! Extremely wide fairway, perhaps 60 yards IF you choose to lay back and accept a 150 yard second shot up a very steep hill to the green. But if you choose to hit driver to get closer, the right bunker cuts the fairway size in half (and you CANNOT miss the fairway left.) The green is huge, but you need to be on the proper section to ensure a two putt. Perhaps the best Coore and Crenshaw opener I have ever played. The look from the tee is SO enticing. The clubhouse is at your back, you see a huge fairway with a gorgeous "scrape" of a bunker on the right, and a beautiful green complex set at the top of the hill. You get the feeling that you are about to embark on a magical journey. (And you are.) My playing partners thought I was a little weird when, after an excellent 3-rescue opening shot, I said that I felt like skipping down the fairway. (I restrained myself!)