At a good club the members are like your family, you don't drop out just because you may not play very often. You continue to support the club so other people may also find the joy you once had. I know many members where I play that pay dues for what to you may see for reasons of folly. I love those guys.
If I could I would be a member of every club that would have me. It's more fun than being a stranger.
When you grow up you shouldn't have to ask permission to go out and play.
John, as usual you put into words things that some of us are thinking about but can't quite put our fingers on.
I am still a member at a club that i use very infrequently. Life and business has gotten more busy and while I still love it I don't hang out there every weekend like it was my home like I used to. However if I can swing it (and if my wife doesn't put the kibosh on this deal) I will be a member until the day I die. I love this place, I love the people, and I see some younger guys that are out there all the time learning to love the game at a special place like I used to. And i feel some loyalty to the "Family" that I have been a part of for 15 years. I was telling someone last week that although my nickname out there is still "Newboy" (sometime I will explain more about that) I am now starting to become one of the "old-timers" out there that I used to look up to when I first joined.
Now I am a member of the in town club a mile from my house because of some family pressures, and like tomorrow am when I will go to that club for a quick round in the morning because of the ease of getting over there and home in just a few minutes. So now if I stop to figure out my cost per round at my real love it would be scary, so I just don't think about it, I just do it. There are some things in life and golf that if you can do it you just have to do it. Now granted I am an engineer and not accountant so I find it easy to not count the beans per round at this club. As an engineer I figure "if it aint broke don't fix it."
I am not a .01% er by any means, but I want to be one. And even though I probably will never be one, in this one part of life that I enjoy so much I hope to live like one...
There are a couple of other clubs I hope to be a member of someday, places where you just know you feel like family the first time you are there. Maybe someday I will be fortunate enough to be a member of those as well. I sure hope so, and I won't count the beans...