Ken,
Did you responded to those guys on the other forum?
I did, but I didn't really try to change his mind. All my rounds in Scotland were played with another couple from here who were excited to go when I proposed the trip, but both of them bitched for two weeks about anything and everything--from too-tight lies, to caddy fees, to B&B costs, to the lack of ice cubes... ad infinitum.
Whenever I tried to get them to straighten up, they both said they were having a great time... and promptly went back to complaining.
The both HATED Brora, and loved Nairn.
In the end, he admitted that he was happy as hell to have been there, but realized he liked American golf the way it is. FWIW, he plays a county course here designed by an idiot, because it's got fluffy zoysia fairways and flat greens that hold a shot.
That experience made me realize that trying to "convert" someone like him was a waste of time.
K