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John Kavanaugh

Let's also say it is an imaginary world of Star Trek like transport so we eliminate travel concerns.  Where do you take an elderly parent who hates golf and only plays with you to make you happy. 
« Last Edit: May 09, 2008, 03:15:13 PM by John Kavanaugh »

Tom Huckaby

Let's also say it is an imaginary world of Star Trek like transport so we eliminate travel concerns.  Where do you take an elderly parent who hates golf and only plays with you to make you happy. 

Hell of a question.  But of course I overstated things in that thread.... he doesn't hate the game... he just doesn't like to play it all that much any more on his own, and yes does tend to play only to humor me.  A lot of that is also due to the fact his former playing partners have either passed away or moved.

So... taking you at face value....

I can answer that my Dad loved Rustic Canyon back when he had more of a desire to play, and I'd take him there again now. 

Using your fantasy scenario, I know he'd love pretty much any course that's near a beach and not too hard.  That covers a few courses, though I can't think of any specifically.  Some in Hawaii?

He also loves shortish munis at which his ego is flattered.  There's a course called Alhambra Muni in SoCal that he used to just live for.  5500 yards par 70.  I'd take him there again, and courses like it.

I guess that's enough for now.




Tony_Chapman

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This is easy.

Get him a Nebraska steak, a Husker football game and York Country Club. 5,600 yards from the middle tees to a par of 70 (with six par-3s no less). It's a no-brainer.

Huck, don't you think from the right tees, say the silver tees at about 6,000 yards he'd have a blast at Wildhorse? Rarely is there anything to carry out there from that distance?
« Last Edit: May 09, 2008, 05:46:57 PM by Tony_Chapman »

Kalen Braley

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I'm thinking screw the golf and go straight for the 19th hole!!   ;)

Tom Huckaby

Tony - that NE idea sounds PERFECT to me.  The man is a football fan, as I am I.  In fact seeing a game at Nebraska would be a life-time highlight.  Some day.....

Re playing the right tees, again it's gonna depend on the course, but the cool thing is Dad has no tee ego.  They do not make tees that he won't play, so long as no one calls them "ladies" tees.   ;D

Tony_Chapman

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Huck see my amended post. I failed to put "Wild Horse" in my first post.

Tom Huckaby

Aha!  Oh yes, I can't see Dad having anything but fun at Wild Horse.  Great call.

I have to laugh at the chances of getting him to travel to Nebraska though.  Remember the curmudgeon factor.  But that is a great example.

TH

Tom_Doak

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My dad has been gone for some time now, but I think the best place would be somewhere like the West Links at North Berwick.  It's got a beach, it's got old world feel, and it's got real golf, but it's not too hard.

Lou_Duran

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Old Del Monte, followed by a few hours at the adjoining sports bar.

Tony_Chapman

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My dad has been gone for some time now, but I think the best place would be somewhere like the West Links at North Berwick.  It's got a beach, it's got old world feel, and it's got real golf, but it's not too hard.

I thought for sure he would say Stone Eagle.  ;D

Kalen Braley

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My dad has been gone for some time now, but I think the best place would be somewhere like the West Links at North Berwick.  It's got a beach, it's got old world feel, and it's got real golf, but it's not too hard.

I thought for sure he would say Stone Eagle.  ;D

Your quite the wicked chap Tony...bad bad man!!  ;)

Tom Huckaby

Tom D - N. Berwick West works great for my Dad as well.

Good god would I love to get him to Scotland...

Yeah, he'd see some deep bunkers there as well.  But I'd get him to embrace it as being Scottish.

 ;D

David Stamm

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Tee time at around 2:00 in October at Pebble Beach and walk down the 18th fw as the sun is setting followed by dinner at the Mission Ranch and run into Clint playing piano at the bar for his guests. Ah, the peninsula.....
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Tim Leahy

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My 80 year old hack dad loves Pacific Grove and if I'm paying, Spanish Bay. Short, fun and scenic.
I love golf, the fightin irish, and beautiful women depending on the season and availability.

David Kelly

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Where do you take an elderly parent who hates golf and only plays with you to make you happy. 

Why would you subject him to golf if he hates it?
"Whatever in creation exists without my knowledge exists without my consent." - Judge Holden, Blood Meridian.

RJ_Daley

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David, I also question the rationale.   In my case, I'd take him fishing...  The best times I ever spent on a golf course with my old man was at night looking for nightcrawlers for the fishing next morn.   :D
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Mike Sweeney

My Dad was a hardcore Philly guy (in a good way  ;) ), but he absolutely loved Charleston and Sea Island, Georgia. I think Sea Island would be too much now, so Yeaman's Hall would be the pick. I have not been to either, but I am sure that would be the spot.

Back up would be Farmington in Charlottsville, Virginia as he graduated from The University.

paul cowley

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My Dad enjoys just riding along with me and other family members when I get home to play Orchard Creek.....an affordable course I designed in the town I grew up in.
paul cowley...golf course architect/asgca

Mike Bowline

Great question.
My dad is also not much of a golfer. But we would have a good time playing any course I had a role in developing, designing, constructing, or maintaining. I believe he would be proud, which is all a son can ask for.

Rich Goodale

My Dad grew up in a serious golfing family, became a single figure handicap, but gave the game up in his teens because he hated the obsession and competitiveness of his father and older brothers (including two Culb Champions and a Lesley Cup player).

He taught me the basics, and  played with him a few times in my teens on vacation (we didn't belong to a golf club).  After that it was a 25 year hiatus until he visited me in California and we played a game at my club (Half Moon Bay).  I was amazed at what a beautiful swing he still had, and it was one of the jewels in the crown of a great week of rediscovery and reconciliation.  He died a year later.

My lesson--play wherever and whenever you can with your dad (or if you are on the other end of the age specturm, with your sons and daughters).  No golf is better than that.

Melvyn Morrow

My father was from St Andrews, loved his golf but as a young man preferred swimming and became Scottish Record Holder and champion in the mid 1930’s.

He was at home on TOC, so there can only be one place The Old Course St Andrews.

He taught me how to play, explained the game and how important it was to relax and enjoy the challenge. He encouraged playing new and different courses to savour the excitement of the unknown. Golf in my early days was a wonderful adventure. The game was totally played for enjoyment, for walking with nature and of course exercise. Yet the first time on the course that Old Tom developed for nearly 40 years of his life, was the biggest mountain I ever had to climb in my golfing life. Forgetting those watching, my mind was still on all that I had see and been told having just come out of the R&A Club House after a tour on all the history and golfing trophies i.e. The Championship Belt, Old Tom’s painting, the old clubs, the list just went on. I remember as we walked to the tee my father’s voice “Don’t worry, its just Old Tom’s course” then gave me the honour of Teeing off. To this day I still love the challenge of the unknown course.   

In my youth, through to leaving school I was very competitive, winning many cups and trophies in Swimming, Athletics (the sprints 100 & 220 yards), Boxing, yet I never felt the need to be competitive with my golf – that must be down to my fathers influence.

Richard, I agree – any combination of father/son/daughter – no game of golf gets better than that.


Mike Sweeney

By the way, if anyone can get my 12 year old to read this thread before Father's Day, it would be appreciated. He has a girl classmate whose Dad belongs to Sebonnack so.......  ;D

Rich Goodale

Mike, if he is age 12 and is acknowledging the presence of a girl in his class, you are toast.

Mark Bourgeois

Mike, if he is age 12 and is acknowledging the presence of a girl in his class, you are toast.

Worse than if he reads discussion boards on golf courses?

Rich Goodale

Absoultely!  Unless he figures out that his Dad can't spell Sebonnack(sic)........