I fit the criteria and am playing Oakont on Monday. Stay tuned...
Seriously, the first time I played the Ocean Course was 1993, and it was brutal. So much so that I thought I'd never play it again. That said, I have played it many times since and truly enjoy it. My change in attitude came about for two reasons, one, I changed my palying approach to the course to make it more manageable. And having caddies to help with yardages, tracking shots, etc, definitely helps. I've played that course with hiogh handicappers and low, and I think even thoses that are beaten up walk away appreciating that the course is "great", perhaps becasue they'd be reluctant to admit that it wasn't "great', (probably more on point with TOC) or because they are masochists.