Sean,
You either play the game of GOLF by the rules, or, you play some individualized, bastardized substitute.
The architect forged a disinterested, yet specific challenge for varying levels of golfers, and to avoid that challenge, on a hole by hole basis, by selecting other tees seems in perfect harmony with the "me" generation.
Call it what you want, but,
When the rules are broken at leisure, the game ceases to be golf.