Corey, all these things are relative. For instance, I have played at Sand Hills, as an escorted guest, when there were only about 10-12 4somes playing there in total, and the round was in the vicintiy of 4.5 hours. Yet, a timely round wasn't a consideration for any of the folks I was with, to my understanding. In fact, most of us would have liked the time to go slower.
It is all about personal preferences and what one's particular level of financial comfort is, in my view. For instance, If I had a moderately comfortable professional level of income, and 50K was about as much as I'd spend cash on a car or boat, I wouldn't mind the idea of one day a week, my club was open to public, for the benefit augmenting costs of operations. That day I could opt to go to the other club that had recipricals, as I understand Cary's proposition above. As a national member, that conflict week probably wouldn't only occur a few times a year anyway. When that club had its open day, I'd expect a few of the other reiprocal clubs members to come over to our place. In fact, I would look at the member dues as a value added feature if we had reasonable workable recipricals with the other area Sand Hill facilities. I'd even think that the value of the membership would be worth it to meet and develop friends and competitive rivalries with the other club's memberships. The more I think of it, the more I like the proposal set forth by Cary if legalistic and structural provisions could be worked out. The potential for interclub matches is very intriguing.
I also like the idea of open to the public that one day a week, by reservation or letter request because if you happen to be there at that time, you meet many interesting people.
While I would decide to specifically join one of those clubs for a significant initiation fee because I would make a determination that I liked their specific membership culture and unique values, I would see the open day as a bonus for the diversity it would bring. I wouldn't feel gipped if I paid an initiation fee and the outside, unescorted guest by reservation paid like $150-200. Particulary, if the intitiation fee had a trasfer, buyback or recovery feature to it.
I wonder how many folks wouldn't be a national member if there were any hint of an open day a week, and liberal recipricals with the other area clubs.