John,
I share your thoughts on the drive and approach.
I gave serious consideration to driving up the left side of the fairway in order to produce a better angle of attack into the hole, especially when I was hitting my drives with a slight fade, but, then I said, why risk a big number for an enhanced angle of attack when I knew that I'd be hitting a long club into the green.
I think your other point is one that all golfers can relate to.
Certain holes fit your eye and your game and certain holes just seem to be your nemesis.
# 16, because the green and surrounds are blind off the tee, doesn't threaten me from the tee the way # 11 does.
And, the approach shot at # 16 requires far less club.
I wish that I had been able to play Bandon Trails, but, a huge storm was coming in so we had to bail before we could play it.
What's interesting about how each golfer perceives a hole is that two golfers can have completely opposite opinions, with each one being valid.
ie. the 5th and 14th holes at Pine Valley.
For me, # 14 is a killer.
I expect to bogey # 5 with an occassional par.
# 14 has seen me "tin cup" it more than a few times.
Yet others I talk to tell me that # 5 is exponentially more difficult than # 14.
Each golfer has his likes and dislikes.
Each golfer has holes that he plays with ease while the same hole eats other golfers for lunch.
Maybe that's one of the things that makes it such a great game.