Mike:
You made your point in the other thread, and it is a good one, although misplaced (in my mind). In any case, repetition is beneath you - I say that as a friend.
The issues there need not be overbroadened. All Kevin, and me by agreeing with him, are saying is that courtesy to one's host is a wise thing, especially when he may or may not invite critique and the result might be that a gift to charity may be pulled in the future. This whole "PC" thing - while damn funny - is now being taken a bit too far.
I said there, and I'll say it again here - you and everyone I know has this in mind, it's a given. Critiques and discussion are very fair so long as courtesy to one's host is remembered. I know you do this, and as I say, it is beneath you to take this to what is starting to seem sort of snide.
Which again, I say as a friend.
TH