If what your club does doesn't interest you then why don't you start something more serious? Of course, you'll have to run it yourself. Matches against other clubs, mixed foursomes knock-out tournament, mixed foursomes stroke-play tournament. Presumably there are regional tournaments, county tournaments, state tournaments, and national tournaments. If there aren't then get them started. At our club we have a number of mixed exchanges with other clubs each year. We play some serious courses. Some of our mixed matches are against some of the best clubs in the area, such as Royal Liverpool, Royal Birkdale, Formby.... If it doesn't exist, make it exist.