Sam, Happy Birthday! (Wow, 25 seems so long ago...and I'm only 32)
It sounds like you're on LI. I'll give you my suggestions, bifurcated into On-The-Island and Off-The-Island
On-The-Island, in order:
1. BSP Red (it's a weekday, it may be a quicker round than normal).
2. Tallgrass (you can drive there from anywhere on the island, play, and be back home in the time it would take you to play any of Bethpage)
3. I haven't seen Timber Point, Eisenhower Red, or Montauk Downs yet.
Off-The-Island, in order:
1. Atlantic City (it's far, but it's a weekday, it might be workable, considering the distance, if time allows try going for a second 18 at Seaview Bay if the course isn't closed for the LPGA yet. If closed, play Kay's Blue Heron Pines West or Archie's Twisted Dune for 2nd round). Hit Baltimore Grill in AC for pizza and cheap beer and play some table games at Trop.
2. Knoll West in Parsippany-much closer to NYC.
3. Scotland Run (it's FAR), but worthwhile. Also VERY good and S. Kay.
4. Architects