Chris,
Keep a few simple things in mind:
1) If you can't make par from the tees your playing at, you ought to move up until you can.
2) Time spent stroking your ego from back tees and then looking for lost balls is time someone behind you is frustrated waiting for you.
3) Don't make any claims, or keep them limited, about your handicap if you play a mixed set of tees that doesn't have a defined rating (ie. MPCC Dunes with back tees on #11 & #14)
4) Have fun...life's too short and the game is inherently too hard not to
Two things with this, do you mean par for the specific hole, or par for the whole course?
If the latter, then I wouldn't even be able to play the ladies tee, I'd have to drop it at the 150 marker and count it as the first shot on every hole, then you might see me go around in 70, but that's not really playing golf now is it, especially if I paid $100 to play the course in question.
Two, I can lose balls just as easily from the ladies tees as I can from the blues or tips. Sometimes moreso because it makes hazards farther down the fairway come into play more.
That said, I generally stay away from the tips because they are rated for 0-6 Handicaps, which I am far from being, as are the guys I usually play with. The point I was getting at, is sometimes there are holes that are only 160-180, 360-380 and 500-520 from the tips and fully managable for a guy who hits it 280 off the tee, but then you get those 460-80 yard par 4s, 600 yard par 5's and 225 yard par 3's that designers like to throw in for some reason (I'm of the philosophy that holes shouldn't be 225 yards long unless they are extremely downhilll, and shouldn't be water laden either) that should be avoided by the less than competent player, and you should move up on those particular holes and play back on the others that you can instead of sticking to some regimented plan that the course's scorecard dictates for you.