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BHoover

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #50 on: November 17, 2017, 02:29:24 PM »
fair point....So here's one that I think qualifies:

Got paired up with Tim Rosafort when he was to be a guest speaker at an outing.   Nice enough guy, but it turns out he grew up very close to where I did, and he bartended and was a bouncer at a bar I used to frequent in my HS and College years.   We compared lots of notes and bands that played there and concluded that we were likely in the same room together many times in the 1970's.  He came back the next year and we played again.


I’m not sure the point of the BuddyUp! movement is to namedrop “celebrities” (whether real or imagined) and top courses you’ve played. I mean, I once played with a guy who claimed to have played golf with Wink Martindale, the gameshow host, in the late 1970s, when Wink was a megastar. But I’m not going to start bragging about it. BuddyUp! is bigger than celebrities.

Kalen Braley

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #51 on: November 17, 2017, 02:52:10 PM »
Bhoov.


Chill pill man, its all in good fun. The celeb stories are the only interesting ones anyways.  I don't think anyone really cares about some random person someone got paired with at Crapptastic Muni in No Name town,  America.


P.S.  I met Ben Stein in an airport once, and yes I resisted saying it......  But the dude was seriously short, like Tom Cruise short..

BHoover

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #52 on: November 17, 2017, 02:58:23 PM »
Bhoov.

Chill pill man, its all in good fun.


Are you familiar with the concept yourself?  ::)
« Last Edit: November 17, 2017, 03:00:36 PM by BHoover »

Kalen Braley

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #53 on: November 17, 2017, 03:02:33 PM »
yes, indeed i am..



BCowan

Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #54 on: November 17, 2017, 03:33:09 PM »

The celeb stories are the only interesting ones anyways.  I don't think anyone really cares about some random person someone got paired with at Crapptastic Muni in No Name town,  America.


You really aren't grasping what buddy up is. The arrogance of the above statement is irksome. Buddy Up is about spontaneous order and fighting back those that want to turn golf and society into an impersonal society.  It's like being a good neighbor, just like anytime in life you have to take a few bad Buddy Up with the mostly good ones.  Golfers should include everyone and have good manners.  I could careless about what Top 100 course someone attempted to buddy up at or what celeb played where.  Buddy Up is summed up perfectly with Tom's prior post. 


 ''The summer of 1973 paired up with a stranger at the local muni. Both of us 16. Best friends 44 years later and live 1000 miles apart. We still play golf together and always will.''
« Last Edit: November 27, 2017, 12:31:14 PM by Ben Cowan (Michigan) »

Kalen Braley

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #55 on: November 17, 2017, 03:42:29 PM »
Sorry Ben,


I've seen your facebook posts.  I could never beat the bar you've set for douchebaggery in a million years!  ;D

BHoover

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #56 on: November 17, 2017, 03:47:35 PM »
Sorry Ben,

I've seen your facebook posts.  I could never beat the bar you've set for douchebaggery in a million years!  ;D


The worst part about random pairings would be getting stuck with someone like you. That’s why I’m hesitant to do so. It’s just not worth the risk.

Kalen Braley

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #57 on: November 17, 2017, 03:51:32 PM »
Sorry Ben,

I've seen your facebook posts.  I could never beat the bar you've set for douchebaggery in a million years!  ;D


The worst part about random pairings would be getting stuck with someone like you. That’s why I’m hesitant to do so. It’s just not worth the risk.



Tim Martin

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #58 on: November 17, 2017, 04:01:13 PM »
Guys-A real honest to goodness Buddy Up story should not include a brag. Sayin.

BCowan

Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #59 on: November 17, 2017, 04:05:19 PM »
Bhoov,


    It's all coming together now, I understand your reluctance.  You know law better then I, if we had posted warning mugshots of those to avoid with Buddy Up pinned up in Golf Shop? 
« Last Edit: November 27, 2017, 12:32:27 PM by Ben Cowan (Michigan) »

Kalen Braley

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #60 on: November 17, 2017, 04:20:56 PM »
Ben,


Your reading comprehension is a bit poor, but i'm not surprised by that.  It is indeed fact that while most Munis are decent places to golf and all that, some are also in fact Craptastic.  Its not making light of those few, just stating the facts...we've all been there/done that.


P.S.  If it makes you feel any better, I'm sure the same can be said about resort and private courses as well.

John Connolly

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #61 on: November 17, 2017, 07:06:47 PM »
Hey, iMac,


Insert "screwing up a bowl of ice cream" quote here.
"And yet - and yet, this New Road will some day be the Old Road, too."

                                                      Neil Munroe (1863-1930)

Terry Lavin

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #62 on: November 20, 2017, 09:01:40 PM »
No mas.
« Last Edit: November 20, 2017, 09:15:32 PM by Terry Lavin »
Nobody ever went broke underestimating the intelligence of the American people.  H.L. Mencken

Tom Birkert

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #63 on: November 22, 2017, 10:48:41 AM »
Bit of a two for one this, and hopefully an example of karma.


My best friend has asked me to be Godfather to his son, and I was naturally delighted. How better to celebrate than with a round of golf?


Date and time agreed, I then get a call from our head pro, asking if I'd like to join him and play with Gianfranco Zola (soccer star, one of my heroes) - on the same day at the same time. Reluctantly, I had to turn the invite down.


As I'm finishing the round and walking off the 18th, a good friend's father asks me if I want to play in the afternoon, as he had agreed to host a couple of people he didn't know and needed someone to make up the fourball. I readily agreed, and to my surprise it turned out the two gentlemen in question were both famous sports stars - Teddy Sheringham (England international) and Brian Lara (world class cricketer).


I bogeyed the first, but managed to play very solidly and get round in level par, which was very good for me. They were both lovely gents, simply out to enjoy themselves and have a fun afternoon. I hope they enjoyed the experience as much as I did.

MCirba

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #64 on: November 22, 2017, 05:25:53 PM »
To the point of this thread sans celebrity histrionics I am guilty of as well, I'd say that over 90% of the time I've buddied up over the years with strangers on the first tee...which I've done many many times...has been enjoyable to delightful.


Says something good about the game, methinks.
"Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent" - Calvin Coolidge

https://cobbscreek.org/

Joe Bausch

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #65 on: November 22, 2017, 05:56:49 PM »
To the point of this thread sans celebrity histrionics I am guilty of as well, I'd say that over 90% of the time I've buddied up over the years with strangers on the first tee...which I've done many many times...has been enjoyable to delightful.


Says something good about the game, methinks.


Especially that time at Edgmont!


That really was an all-timer.
@jwbausch (for new photo albums)
The site for the Cobb's Creek project:  https://cobbscreek.org/
Nearly all Delaware Valley golf courses in photo albums: Bausch Collection

Peter Pallotta

Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #66 on: November 22, 2017, 05:59:38 PM »
Mike - I’m glad you posted that. The truth is, while I very much enjoy the term and I’m happy that JK trademarked it, I don’t understand all the fuss about the “Buddy Up” movement.
As a public course player who often heads out to the local by myself and without a tee-time, I’d say that about 75% of my rounds over the last 5 years have been Buddy Up experiences (though I still call it being “paired up” instead).
Sure, I “jibe” with some of the guys better than with others; but like you, I find that one of the beauties of golf is the way it brings very different people together so amicably through nothing more than a shared appreciation of the game.
It’s amazing what good feelings can be engendered among strangers when the conversation is limited to things like “good shot” and “man these greens are quick” and “you had great tempo there” and “yeah, I hit it OB here just last week”.
In short: “Buddy Up” might be a new term, but as a concept it’s what average golfers who play busy public courses have been doing routinely for a long time 
Can you imagine those early and extremely busy days at Cobbs Creek? Buddy Up was the norm, not the exception. And with all your (and Joe’s etc) work on that course, one day it will be again!
« Last Edit: November 23, 2017, 09:53:14 AM by Peter Pallotta »

Joe Bausch

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #67 on: November 22, 2017, 06:57:35 PM »
Mike - I’m glad you posted that. The truth is, while I very much enjoy the term and I’m happy that JK trademarked it, I don’t understand all the fuss about the “Buddy Up” movement.
As a public course player who often heads out to the local by myself and without a tee-time, I’d say that about 75% of my rounds over the last 5 years have been Buddy Up experiences (though I still call it being “paired up” instead).
Sure, I “jibe” with some of the guys better than with others; but like you, I find that one of the beauties of golf is the way it brings very different people together so amicably through nothing more than a shared appreciation of the game.
It’s amazing what good feelings can be engendered among strangers when the conversation is limited to things like “good shot” and “man these greens are quick” and “you had great tempo there” and “yeah, I hit it OB here just last week”.
In short: “Buddy Up” might be a new term, but as a concept it’s what average golfers have been doing routinely for decades.
Can you imagine those early and extremely busy days at Cobbs Creek? Buddy Up was the norm, not the exception. And with all your (and Joe’s etc) work on that course, one day it will be again!


Thanks for the kind words, P2.  And this gives me the opportunity to tell people that a new and improved (how can that be?!) Friends of Cobb's Creek web site went live about a week ago and is here:


http://friendsofcobbscreekgc.com
@jwbausch (for new photo albums)
The site for the Cobb's Creek project:  https://cobbscreek.org/
Nearly all Delaware Valley golf courses in photo albums: Bausch Collection

MCirba

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #68 on: November 22, 2017, 07:33:10 PM »
Peter,


Thanks...glad you enjoyed.


I will try to post a relevant article of Thanksgiving tomorrow.
"Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent" - Calvin Coolidge

https://cobbscreek.org/

jeffwarne

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #69 on: November 23, 2017, 09:31:32 AM »
The fact that showing up announced and teeing off with whoever is around/available ...or joining up on course as a single...
has to have a new name...and could be considered a "movement"...


says a lot about how golf has become a less solitary, romantic , addictive and mystical game, and more of an entertainment vehicle and social statement that has to be fed to keep it going.
(as in "golf is cool"----ick)




Anecdotally-my assistant and I paired up with an elderly couple at the Charleston muni-we had a great day on a jam packed course
Was really amusing to see the woman, who carried the ball 50-60 yards at best with her driver, instinctively pull 7 iron on any par 3 inside 180 yards.....which, if you're good with math is a rinse and repeat formula
« Last Edit: November 23, 2017, 11:35:55 AM by jeffwarne »
"Let's slow the damned greens down a bit, not take the character out of them." Tom Doak
"Take their focus off the grass and put it squarely on interesting golf." Don Mahaffey

Thomas Dai

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #70 on: November 23, 2017, 09:53:38 AM »
Pre-booking tee-times and the seeming desire these days to play in 4’s has a lot to answer for.
Over the years I’ve met loads of now good golf mates when intending to play alone or in 2’s or 3’s and being joined by someone new or joining up with others.
One of the nicer aspects of being a member at a private club is flexibility on the tee.
Atb

MCirba

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #71 on: November 23, 2017, 11:32:25 AM »
Peter, et.al.,

This might be a good spot to leave this 1924 article here in the spirit of the times and holiday season.   Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

"Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent" - Calvin Coolidge

https://cobbscreek.org/

Peter Pallotta

Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #72 on: November 23, 2017, 11:51:12 AM »
That’s wonderful, Mike - thanks for posting. First, because I can always use reminders of the better angels of my/our nature. Second, because collectively it’s good to remember how valuable and life enhancing ‘simple’ games and pastimes can be: racial barriers being torn down through golf/at Cobb’s Creek back in 1924; or by Benny Goodman on stage in Chicago in 1935, playing jazz with Lionel Hampton and Teddy Wilson and Gene Krupa.*
It’s a lovely and inspiring thing.
Best of the holiday to you, Mike.
Peter

* PS: There was an excellent writer named Otis Ferguson, who sadly died during World War Two. He wrote a long piece in the New Republic in the mid 1930s about going out to listen to the Goodman Quartet one night in New York. After describing beautifully the music and the people and the milieu, he ended his piece with the following. I thought you'd appreciate it:   

"The music seems more than audible, rising and coming forward from the stand in banks of colors and shifting masses—not only the clangor in the ears but a visual picture of the intricate fitted spans, the breathless height and spring of a steel-bridge structure. And if you leave at the end, before the "Good-Bye" signature, you will seem to hear this great rattling march of the hobos through the taxis, lights, and people, ringing under the low sky over Manhattan as if it were a strange high thing after all (which it is) and as if it came from the American ground under these buildings, roads, and motorcars (which it did). And if you leave the band and quartet and piano of the Goodman show and still are no more than slightly amused, you may be sure that in the smug absence of your attention a native true spirit of music has been and gone, leaving a message for your grandchildren to study through their patient glasses."
« Last Edit: November 23, 2017, 12:06:41 PM by Peter Pallotta »

Ryan Hillenbrand

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Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #73 on: July 25, 2018, 05:01:22 PM »
I have 2 spots open at Prairie Dunes August 1st and 2nd. Let me know if you can get to Hutchinson and want to buddy up

Peter Pallotta

Re: OT- Your Buddy Up Experiences
« Reply #74 on: July 25, 2018, 05:16:20 PM »
R - it would be fitting if the originator of the 'buddy up' movement is the one who is buddied up with you at Prairie Dunes. It must be one of his most favourite courses -- reading his posts about it is as close to  gratitude and sentimentality as JK ever gets around here! 
« Last Edit: July 25, 2018, 05:53:40 PM by Peter Pallotta »