I am so grateful for a post where he said, "Life's about building relationships." I hadn't thought of it that way before, but eventually his wisdom took.
I was reminded of Bob's comment when reading this passage in Paul Kalanithi's book:
"When you come to one of the many moments in life where you must give an account of yourself, provide a ledger of what you have been, and done, and meant to the world, do not, I pray, discount that you filled a dying man's days with a sated joy, a joy unknown to me in all my prior years, a joy that does not hunger for more and more but rests, satisfied. In this time, right now, that is an enormous thing."
sic transit gloria mundi