Bear with me, this'll take a moment or two to build.
I've just watched Jersey Boys (the movie) for the first time. It's a really good movie, if a little 'stagey' due to the conversion from theatre to movie theatre.
What struck me most was the (DOH!) Music. Once they'd found their groove, those boys were as tight as a band can be. Incredible tunes, gorgeous harmonies, great musicality, just lovely.
Here's the thing: Being a musician of sorts (some might disagree), I've been such a pretentious, critical, dismissive prick about some music since my teens/early twenties that i wouldn't listen to or buy. Stuff which didn't fit into my little 'field of acceptability', which was mostly Rock, punk, new wave, then deep classical, jazz and obscure weirdness, was simply, to me, not worth the listening to. Certainly not, people like Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons!
Right, you're maybe starting to guess where this is going. Through the course of my life, there's been golf courses which have gone through similar metamorphoses. I can think of a few which, when I was young, were either beyond my means (Gleneagles) or my ability (Carnoustie) or geography (Cypress Point) which , one way or another, arrived in my life given the chance to play. Let's call them the Supergroups. Big, famous, ostentatious even, they taught me about the game like watching Clapton or Hendrix taught me about music. Funny there, the auto correct wanted to turn Clapton into Clayton! However, I digress.
Then there's the courses I grew up on. Wee Nine holers, working men's clubs like Bathgate (despite its humble status, home of TWO Ryder Cup captains), Greenburn, Polkemmet. Unheard-of courses, much like those gigging bands who play tiny venues for no money every week mostly for the love of the art, but who will still contain at least one superb musician. They're the clubs and courses which I now realise taught me about simplicity, frugality and making the most of what you've got with the limitations of your budget and site. If you can't afford the Stratocaster, buy the clone!!!
So there we are. I know I've posted about music/golf before, but this was another thought. Horses for courses, take in all of your influences, be flexible and open to suggestion.
Most of all though, really truly love the thing that you love most.
Thank you,
Jean Paul Bonnar.