I disagree wholeheartedly with any efforts (by starter or owner) to dictate the tees that a particular player should use. If you're a paying member or daily fee customer, you should have the right to play whatever tees you want (including the possibility of mixing and matching on different holes) so long as you keep a reasonable pace-of-play.
Similarly, I don't like it when courses don't put a set of tees on the back boxes presuming that none of their daily fee golfers are good enough to play from those. If someone wants to play the tips and can keep up the pace, there is no reason they shouldn't have that right. This could be especially frustrating if you want to experience the challenge of a Pinehurst, Kiawah, etc. from major championship tees (and you've traveled some distance to do it), and the course won't allow it.
Personally, I have had many golf experiences made worse because a course or host prevented me from playing the best tees. For these reasons, I strongly prefer the Ballyneal model of no tee boxes. Unfortunately, the card-and-pencil types (most golfers) want to be able to say that they shot a particular score from a particular set of tees.