Dan;
Thanks for your comments. I see now that you and I mostly agree on these things. I have seen 'Little League Syndrome', in it's many aspects, in several sports. I thought I heard some of that in your post. I am happy to be wrong.
Dan; I was once a very strong competitive tournament chess player. I had some titles and a lot of expectations, mine and others. It became almost a nightmare. The need to win drove out first the joy of the game, then the creative process, and finally was of such stress that I quit. I quit a hobby I loved for nearly 20 years because it was so not good for me; pure stress! I have since regained my love for the game, and play online quite a bit. But never again a serious game.
It made me about as non-competitive a sports lover as you will see. I never compete with my playing partner, nor anyone we play with. But Dan, that does not mean I reject competition for everyone. Many of my friends on GKL compete all the time, and I enjoy their recount of adventures. But I have found that golf, more than other sports that I play much better, gives me greatest return on my investment of time, money, and attention. Unless my old family enemy, arthiritis, stops me, I shall certainly play till death or disability.
As for people's attitude about golf and it's relationship to business, that is being slowly eroded, I hope, by this boom. OTOH, there is quite a kernel of truth involved. When I, who will never be a private club member, ask people who are in those about it's value, as opposed to playing a huge variety of publics now available, they more often speak of business contacts than any other reason. This is no secret. I just want young players to know golf is also available publically and offers much else.
Must be wonderful to have a child playing, whom you can show all those fun things you know about.
Doug