Obviously, we are all big boys and can decide what sort of "once in a lifetime" things or events are worth what price according to our own comfort level.
To my way of thinking, the issue Pat points out regarding travel to, lodging, food, and other tourist expenses are indeed as large or greater costs factors, in most cases.
When you get to $500 a round, I think you are now actually talking about as much as most people would spend for a couple days lodging, food, and bev, and other things (if you stay at a Holiday Inn Express
) So, to me, you are getting a few days of diversion and time to enjoy your $$$ spent on the fact of being somewhere interesting over time.
To spend $500 for 5 hours of golf, doesn't compute to a worthwhile expense in my world... maybe it is OK and comfortable in yours.
But, one final thought is that we ask the question if it is worth that kind of ping "once in a lifetime".
With the exception of a Tom Doak or one of you other great students of golf and golf course architecture... who may be saying it is the "once in a lifetime" chance to experience a great golf course design; I ask what can you really get out of one fleeting play at such a course, other than views and an isolated smattering of the architecture?
I would imagine that you get to play once at PBGL and are under the gun to hit your shot and move on. You aren't going to be allowed to hit a few "optional" shots to sample the design from different perspectives. You are probably of average to slightly better than average as a skill golfer. So, you will likely foozle a good % of your shots on the once in a lifetime chance to play. So, you finish, have hit about a half dozen shots that you saw or recognized as the genius of a given great course like Pebble, Pine Valley, Pinehurst, etc., and when you are done, spent your $500 and associated costs of travel and lodging, what do you really have? (take pictures!)
I will play and pay at a place like Sand Hills, Sutton Bay, (when invited) because it is actually good value. And the journey there is part of the fun. You get to stay for a moderate price, play all day, and eat well. That is value.
Paying $450 a night to pay $150 play and $75 replay at a Bandon (as I was recently quoted) is a humbug IMO. Same with Pebble. I'll pay to go to the area, see the beautiful sights as a tourist, and leave the "study" of the great golf course to watching it over time by watching toon-a-mints.
But, to play once in a lifetime, is a fleeting exercise in kidding myself, to think I'd ever be able to really appreciate golf course design and architecture on one dicey round... I don't kid myself that much. c