Only because you said money was no object, I'd pick me. I am not an architect (although many who design courses are course designers not architects exactly either) and I have virtually no experience.
I'd makes plenty of mistakes but with limitless money, I could fix the mistakes. I've played all over the world, know what I like and you said the course was for one's self so......
But, if money were an object I'd get an expert. Mike Riley from Atlanta re-did my home golf course and he did a fantastic job. I was amazed at how creative he was and how he could see things "in the dirt" no one else could.
I also came away from the project convinced there are basicly two types of designers--"plans" guys and guys that are "dirt" guys. With all do respect to those that put together elaborate plans, great presentations etc., the guy I want is the one who grew up in the business as the "dirt/field" guy--there is no substitute for that experience. While a guy today must certainly do both, I want the guy who started outside and learned the inside stuff later instead of vice versa.
I'd also pick Mike Riley again since I would love to see what he'd do with a blank slate.
For those of you that don't know anything about Mike, his work includes: Atlanta: Crooked Creek (high end daily fee that successfully transitioned to fully private), Reunion (daily fee), Governors Towne Club (private). He renovated Brookfield CC (private), Rivermont CC (my club-private) and he re-built all the greens at Atlanta Country Club--where the old PGA tour Atlanta Classic used to be (he still consults for them), he also rebunkered and re-did all the greens at The Standard Club (host of US Open sectionals and US Am sectionals multiple times).
Currently Mike was hired to completely re-do the old Heritage Golf Course in Tucker, Ga. It will be a high end private course and Mike's new routing and changes look to be fantastic.
Out of GA I know he did Kelly Plantation (with Fred Couples
) as well as stuff in Hawaii and Japan (maybe when he was still with Nicklaus Design?) He's been own his own for more than a decade.