Jerry, it seems this thread will be destined to migrate to the social-economic question of our times: Is the middle class shrinking, and how will that effect golf. I expect that the relocated Lou Duran will be along shortly to explain the whole misperception of that to us.
I am not completely clear on Jim's line of thought here. Are you saying that the older gen, typically playing a leisurely game of 4-4.5 hours is hurting the growth of the game in a younger and more pressed for time generation? Therefore, they are not playing as much because they are too pressed for time working and placing acorns, and taking junior and missy to all the overly organized events in what little spare time they have?
First, I don't know that the younger gen, acquiring the mcMansion lifestyle with double income demands inorder to chase big debt, provide all things organized to kids, etc., is ever going to lead to an expansion for numbers playing golf. It just can't. Look at how many of our GCA posters, ardent fans of the game, many of them good sticks, often post that now they are a Daddy, and they may be lucky to play a round or two this year! Why? Because their work is long and demanding, their spouses work, their finacial obligations are so great, their time to devote to kids is so small, that they drift from the game, and more importantly, a better paced life?
MHO to the younger gen is Fuggetaboutit! downsize! get a smaller home, drive a smaller car, try and get the wife back in the home, at least part-time to spend more time razing the kids in the crucial years and taking the pressure off both of you. Then, you'll all have better time together. Work more after they are grown a bit. Enjoy your life and the kids now, and lower your need for instant gratification with all the trimmings of an upscale life. That life will still be there for you when you do your bit as a young family. Watch and care for who you vote for that also believes the middle class needs encouragement, not competitive floggings.
If the kids have good food, a roof, recreational opportunity, and access to education, it doesn't matter if it is mcMansion, Harvard, U.S developmental sqaud sport team, etc., they will flurish and grow up with just as many good values and attitudes as if they were given everything on a silver platter. And vote for someone that realizes the middle class has to be enhanced, not shrunk and shipped elsewhere, or don't succumb to be pressured to be slaves in our own home country economy.
Adopt a more euro model in lifestyle and middle class moderate expectations. I think they are all laughing at us on the rat race wheel.