Actually, Alwoodley is on the very northern edge of Leeds. It is on the edge of fabulous countryside with Harewood House just down the road, Castle Howard within easy reach. Shopping in Leeds or Harrogate is plentiful and good. There are great value coach trips out of Leeds to the Yorkshire Dales, North Yorks Moors etc, and there are no more atmospheric ruins than Fountains, Byland and, especially, Rievaulx. Get out to some of the smaller towns such as Helmsley or Easingwold and there are good antique shops (antique prices in Britain have fallen exponentially since 9/11). You could spend a glorious day in mediaeval York. There's plenty for wives or non-golfers and Leeds is not just a dump, it is the home of Opera North, of a fine civic art gallery, there is a first-rate international concert season in the Town Hall. There are some great restaurants, highly ranked in the Good Food Guide and Michelin. There are great breweries, many really good local foods...... Don't dismiss it!