John,
I don't think either of you should have any input into either event. Bamberger may or may not have been trying to create a story. You may or may not have been trying to get a specific competitor disqualified. The LPGA and Tours need to take away these outside inputs. They have no ability to qualify yours or Bamberger's knowledge of the rules. The fact that you were both correct is not the issue, it is having inconsistent outside influences shape outcomes of tournaments.
Are referees at the Super Bowl going to listen to a college referee sitting in the endzone with a New England Patriots jersey on?
PS. I know you were not trying anything, it is just an example put forth by yourself.
Unlike all other sports, there are not officials with every group watching everything. Players are very good at policing themselves (see Kevin Stadler yesterday), but there are times that they get the rules wrong or cheat (I'm not accusing anyone). At times like witnesses of all sorts are the only way that things can be caught.
I certainly don't believe that anyone should have the right to call a penalty on a player, but I do believe that they have the right to report what they saw to an official and let the official determine the facts. It should be pointed out that in most of the cases where things are reported there is no penalty assessed, either because nothing was done that was wrong or the facts were not there to support a penalty. Officials try very hard not to penalize players, but when things are reported to them, they are duty-bound to investigate them.
Where would you draw the line? Can a player who is in the same group report a violation he thought he saw? Can a player who is in the competition but playing in another group? Can either of those players do it after the round is over and the cards returned (like the incident with Marco Dawson and Esteban Toledo at Disney last year)? Can the player, himself, report the violation the next day when he realizes that might have done something wrong (ala Jeff Sluman at Bay Hill a couple of years ago)? Can an official who overhears a player telling someone else about an incident that happened to him investigate it?
The rules of golf have a statue of limitations for penalties that a player was not aware of and it is the end of the competition. Until then, all reports are investigated.
I have no problem with that being the limit, as I feel that getting it right is better than not and if we can do that we should. As I said above, the only time I have a problem is when someone waits until our only option is disqualification to tell us about something they saw.