Adam:
That says volumes about the essence for guys like us, addicts and students of the game.... I've had experiences like Tom's also and hell yes, it is what the game is all about, for me, as a golf addict....
But you're right, it does elude most golfers - they are neither addicts nor students - so for them, HOW MANY is always gonna trump HOW.
Sad but true. They're not gonna give a rat's ass what club they hit, how they carefully planned it, how cool it was that a 3iron went 130 into the wind or 230 downwind, whatever - a skulled wedge that hits the top of the pin and clangs to a stop a few feet away is always gonna be better than Tom Paul's shot, for them.
The thing is, I don't see anything WRONG with that... to each his own, big world of golf, etc. Our essence ain't there essence, and neither is right or wrong.