If any of you are claiming an 8 footer for birdie doesn't elicit different emotions than an 8 footer for par, and likewise for bogey than you are missing out on a wonderful part of golf.
You may call it weak-minded, I prefer to call it engaged. There is an opponent in golf, and it's the course and the designer. Par is their measuring stick, and the features that help or hurt you along the way are their tools. For those that par is unrealistic, it should be aspirational. Making bogey should be an accomplishment...even double bogey. The responsibility on the designer is to engage that player as well.