Tom:
I think you're getting the wrong idea about what I'm saying. I would never suggest to you what you should do or not do with your designs. I'm only pointing out that golf courses with limited teeing options are not going to appeal to those golfers that don't hit it very far. Our day at Ganton was only an example of how a great course will not appeal to the types of golfers mainly due to a lack of tee options. My wife disliked Tobacco Road because it was too difficult for her. That is a different issue. I liked Tobacco Road because it was different and I'd love to play it again. I understand that there are no sets of tees that are going to make the experience better for my wife. However I think that courses like Tobacco Road are the exception. Many courses could be enjoyable for more golfers if they could play from a tee appropriate for them. Yes, there is no one on this thread that is advocating for 6000 yd. forward tees. Yet many courses have forward tees that are just too long for many golfers.
Brock:
Apologies if I have been a little testy on this thread. I've had a long and emotional last few days. And I've not seen your name here before, so I don't know how to talk to you, or for that matter whether you were just one of my three favorite trolls operating under a new handle.
There are lots of old courses like Ganton who just keep doing what they've always done and see no need to change. You are right that they aren't going to appeal to many 25-handicap women golfers; they might just not care. They probably won't see many 25-handicap women visitors in a year, no matter where they put the tees. But in an ideal world they'd be more accommodating.
The funny thing about your mention of Tobacco Road is, doesn't it have a lot of different tee locations? I know exactly what you are saying, as my one round there was with two excellent junior players, and their dad really struggled to find a tee for them on each hole where they could play and not have to lay up or face an impossible carry.
But that's been part of my point in this argument all along: it's not just about the length of the tees, but about the playability of the holes. A longer course can work well for your wife if it doesn't hold her back, and doesn't require any big carries. The genesis of so many sets of tees is just the opposite: too many designers have succumbed to the temptation to build lots of bunkers and hazards, and then they try to keep it playable by building more sets of tees, and declaring that you'd have been fine if you had just played from different markers.