Jon...Does it really matter who handed him the soda? Should you say thank you no matter what?
As to payment Mr. Hogan asked his caddie to get him a soda. Call it gripping if you like, I was just astounded by the lack of common courtesy.
Am I taking a dig at Mr. Hogan? Those are your words not mine. I am just relating a story from 50 some years ago. But it left an impression. As I stated I knew nothing about Ben Hogan before this encounter. I subsequently read that it fit in perfectly with his reputation. I frankly don’t see the need to defend his indefensible behavior.
It's a story, indeed. But I'm curious - do you not think that somewhere in your life, no one has a story like this about you? I work really really hard at treating everyone well, no matter the position, or whether or not he can do me a favor, or whatever, but I'm sure there are times I've spaced out and forgotten common courtesy, particularly if I were involved in something that required a lot of focus and attention. That's what makes us humans, not robots. We all forget things, and make mistakes, particularly when we are at one end of the age spectrum or another, very young or fairly old. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.
It's funny, I just had an opportunity to play a special course the other day. Every single time my caddy handed me a club, I said thank you, and every single time he said, you're welcome. At one point, late in the round, I thought to myself, he doesn't need to say that to me. But he did, and it left an impression (quite positive, obviously). But I wonder if either party had forgotten just once, in a hundred exchanges, would the other have felt differently? I wouldn't have, I'd assume it was a simple oversight, and I'd hope he would extend me the same courtesy.
But my wife sure doesn't...