My initial exposure to golf in the UK opened my eyes to how much the locals considered golf a "game" and didn't really worry so much about scores and such. This was very new to me, because until that time golf had always been about "what did you shoot." Yes, we played fourball matches and gambled in The States, but your individual score was the primary purpose for playing and it was important to keep score for handicap purposes.
After spending six to ten weeks per year in the UK for the past 14 years, and being a member at Deal for six or so of those, I am now all about golf as a game. While I want to play as well as possible every time I tee it up (and I'm disappointed if I don't), my individual score means little to me... it's all about the game.
If there is not a game involved, I don't want to play. Singular golf or golf where you are only focused on your individual score is, IMHO, "Golf Masturbation..." it can be fun, but it's not as good as the real thing! 😉