It's the strangest thing, how otherwise thoughtful and responsible grown men can behave on a golf course. I have a friend I sometimes play with -- husband, father, psychologist, former captain of his U.S. division II basketball team, and in all these areas the most gentle, respectful, sane, non-drinking, non-swearing, rule-abiding, golf-loving fellow you'd ever want to meet. (When he hits his 3rd or 4th bad shot in a row, the angriest he ever gets is to frown and say "well, I'm going to have to do better than that"). And yet on every single (Par 3 or short Par 4) tee of every single round we've ever played together, he pulls out his iron and takes 3 practice swings....and takes divots every single time! I've seen it happen a hundred times and I still don't quite believe it. He wants to take divots, and doesn't seem satisfied until he's gotten one of just the right size (whatever that is) and has had it flying off in just the right direction (who knows where). He's so calm about it and so unruffled that you start almost thinking that it's normal. I've mentioned it to him, others have mentioned it to him, we've wondered out loud in his presence what the poor super will say and have to do to repair the mess, and we've pointed out that there doesn't appear to be any correlation between the quality of his last divot and the quality of his actual shot...and he acknowledges all this and yet keeps doing it as if nothing were more important than that he get the right "feel". Very strange. I think it is a deep sense of entitlement, i.e. I've paid my money and I'll do what I like if it's not again the rules; but it is a sense of entitlement that I don't see from him in any other area of his life.