Hi Tom,
Perhaps I'm not being clear. Even in the last post, I'm asking the reader to "figure it out". I'm saying that Chris's participation stifles and distorts discussion. I'm grateful that me and big JK and the other members made the best of it, but some of my friends wanted no part of the discussion. It's not that the naysayers get shouted down as heretics, it's that the naysayers didn't want to play. The architect and irrigation guru wanted very little to do with it as well.
The way the DR vs. BN thread ended was atrocious, with pages of non-architecture related garbage attached to what I considered pretty solid analysis. So the DR White vs. Red thread comes along, and the same thing happens. Nobody wants to say anything negative. I don't feel like offering a rebuttal to Mac's and Eric's assertion that #10 White is better than #10 Red. I don't want to worry (again) about critiquing DR's courses, especially when I could be accused of having an alterior motive. Nobody wanted to play, including yourself. Since nobody offered any criticism, Eric Smith ends up looking bad for his sunny analysis of his beloved club. It's not his fault.
I am always a bit more careful evaluating golf courses that don't have full memberships, or may not be financially secure. [Note: This is not to say I believe Dismal River is financially insecure - Chris Johnston has reiterated many times this is not the case.] I am a member of two clubs that have been through a bankruptcy, so I'm sensitive to that. Many top notch golf courses opened between about 2000-2009 have had difficulties, and many still do. Regardless, it means I'm a bit more careful and respectful in asking questions rather than making judgements, and shy away from broad-based generalizations.
After the DR vs BN thread, it doesn't feel worthwhile to offer much about Dismal River, because I found it unrewarding the first time around.
John, With all due respect, I think I posted, maybe 4 times, on the first 18 or so pages on the thread you mention and both Don and Tom posted more that I did. One of those posts was to describe the unique 12th hole strategy to my friend Simon Holt. It seems you want to choose who should participate, and my very small participation seems a thorn. That is sad.
Beginning around page 9, some began to question the scoring of a match between two good clubs and in good fun...then the usual suspects began to emerge questioning the thread itself. Again, for the record, that wasn't me. Those that did begin the hijacking had never played one or both of the curses, yet the usual "question of motives" began. If I stepped in, it was to defend you and your efforts on a very good thread that I know did indeed require a bit of effort on your part.
I am very honest in my assessment of our courses and other that I have played. Lets cut to the chase here, where I may comment about your beloved Ballyneal (btw a course I too like very much) the thin skins emerge and wagons are circled and that is where I believe the puzzle began. It's no secret that I'm not a big fan of the greens there as they don't suit my palate, but I'm glad they suit yours. Some erroneously claim that I shouldn't comment about that, and that to me is silly. I'm also sorry you are part of two bankrupt clubs, and both are fortunate to have good guys like you still supportive.
John, I make no claim to architectural superiority, but I did watch and participate a bit in a course being built from start to completion. I have also played some pretty competitive golf and, while not as skilled these days, I can still get it around ok when I do. I also have a very unique perspctive to share yet, after these few days and weeks, I understand why others like me choose not to. The one time you and Cheryl visited last year, you were admittedly off your feed - I think you would agree you were not a very happy person. I didn't shun you for being surly, I came to visit to try to brighten your mood.
To assert that people don't want to participate due to me really fails basic common sense, and no one is more critical of me and mine than me. There is only one person here who deliberately hijacks threads for kicks and that isn't me. I post honestly and, like everyone else, probably unintentionally offend good friends on occasion. I wouldn't be true to myself if I "pulled punches" and my opinions are pretty well known. Yet, if I do post what I believe, somehow you find wrong in that too.
I have never stifled honest debate, but I don't suffer fools very well. I spoke with a friend last week who, after a dustup not with me in this realm, actually asked me if he was still welcome to see Dismal River. I laughed very hard and told him friendship doesn't mean we have to agree and friendship, to me, is a lot more than that.
I created a thread yesterday to foster an frank and open discussion about both courses at Dismal River, in response to a silly claim that it was not possible. While enjoy the posts, the accuser failed the test as he didn't provide any frank or open commentary. Strawmen are always easier.
I suppose I could accuse you of being a "homer" and claim that you distort discussion but that serves no real purpose any more than yours did me. I respect and invite your views regardless if I agree or not, and I enjoy looking at things through your lens.
It well past time to put down the guns and competitive koolaid and realize we all share something wonderful...friendship, and an appreciation for golf and the wonderful places we play it.