No change for me since I contributed to this topic 5 years ago. Golf for me is the group of regular partners that I play with. As long as I have a regular group that I enjoy, where to play becomes a decision based upon cost-per-round and quality of the course experience (condition, service, pace of play, tee time availability).
While I can afford to join any club I choose, I play public. I play with three different groups of regular players whom I enjoy. Two groups are senior leagues. No memberships. I don’t need a pool, tennis, restaurant, health club, or ass kissing staff. I don’t have anything to prove relative to ‘status’. Wife and family have no interest in a club at all, including golf. I once belonged to a simple private, golf-only, club. I enjoyed that greatly, entirely due to a good group of regular players. Sadly a move away ended that. That was a long time ago and golf was not in the financial crisis that it’s in today. I’ve not been able to find a similar club today.
Golfers, as customers, are in a very good time period right now. Although likely short-lived. Public golf in the US is plentiful and very inexpensive. (Discounters like GolfNow make it even less expensive.) In the future, supply will contract as courses close, and prices will go up. That also changes the equation for privates. Less public supply may drive golfers to join private. On the other hand, fewer golfers may force privates to compete harder for members. Hard to predict.
I’ve had an invitation from a private clubs for a $5K initiation, where a few years ago they wanted $25K. The risk of club failure or sale, increased dues, and new assessments all would make me think twice if I were considering a private. I’ve had neighbors lose $50K initiations when a local club folded after 3 years.
If I ever find that simple golf-only club and get to know members that I like, I make go back private. Sadly it seems that clubs today are going the other way, with more and more non golf amenities to try to attract families rather than to cater to old-guy golfers.