Craig,
Hey, my 90 year old mother goes around saying people should respect her because she's old, and seems to be losing her filter. Nothing new for older folks, legendary sports guy or not!
That said, Gary Player was well known for always saying the right thing, even in tough situations. I guess this goes to show that old age really does affect everyone equally.
Since its a Player thread, I will share my two experiences with Gary. Played with him in a pro am, and the getting on his caddie story rings true. Also, got on his playing partners, including me! I recall getting a few very public putting and chipping lessons from him. Unfailingly polite, but it was still a bit heavy handed for a guy trying to reach out in a pro am.
Second, I got a call years ago from his organization saying they were considering buying an existing design business to open a western office. I went there for two days of cordial discussion, but we couldn't come to agreement. Of course, I am not sure that was really my goal and probably never would have.
We did have some moments though. I showed them the plans for Opryland, and say what you want about the course, it was built very close to the plan. They didn't seem to think the plans were realistic. They were also early adopters of CAD, and showed me some of theirs, and I noticed about 20 acres of fw draining down to a swale about five feet in front of the green, and then diverted to the cart path side, which I knew was going to cause a mess, but they didn't seem to thrilled with me "graciously" pointing that out. I also pointed out that while they showed contours and grading all along that fw, they really only changed grade a foot or two everywhere, and hadn't drawn a cross section, which I thought would still make the ole blind, even after grading. I felt it was a waste, but they were clearly in the "big boy architects grade everywhere and that is just how it is mode.
Not sour grapes, because I am not sure I wanted to work for Gary Player, even as much as I respect him and his record. But, I do recall those discussions to this day. A great experience to talk architecture with him, but at the end of the day, we agreed to disagree.