As to the forward tees,I understand that there is no one good yardage. The current forward tees are probably fine for moderate to good females and that is likely what most of the female players that go there will be, so it probably works fine. For most women I would guess that a yardage around 4500 - 4800 would be ideal (what does Alice say?). Which three holes are you considering? Certainly you could shave 100 yards off of 17 and it'd still be a tough hole for most women golfers. For my wife's demographic, it is something like a a forced march par 8 at its current yardage (a slap to the side of your head with a wet noodle for this one).
Maybe my thinking is a bit skewed, but even looking at the first hole, you have me playing the tips from the top of a mammoth hill from 338 yards while the women get a 40 yard head start playing uphill from the bottom of the hill. The two holes are in no way comparable in the way they would be played. As a short par 4 opening hole, it would make more sense to me if the holes was 200 yards from the forward tee.
Bryan:
Sometimes, the topography means there just won't be a great place to put a forward tee. #1 Blue is a good example of that. It's a cool hole from the top of the hill, but anywhere between there and 175 yards from the green, it's going to be blind and intimidating. We don't mind a bit putting the tee markers out in the fairway for the forward-most tee on occasion, but everyone objects if we put them on an upslope as you'd almost have to on #1.
The 17th is one of the three holes that's really in need of a more forward tee. Building the cross-bunkers was a tough choice; most people have complimented me on them and think it's one of our very best par-5 holes, and yet, that same choice made sure the hole plays VERY difficult for women. But on my last walk-through before grassing I did identify a place for a forward tee way up on the left side, and for whatever reason, it got missed on the scorecard.
If we used the same logic for women's yardages that we used for men's in the current thread, we would have to abandon the 30-yard gap between holes as too much -- you'd have a 510-yard hole on one end and a zero-yard hole on the other. If we reduced the gaps to 20 yards for women, and started at 100 yards, the course for women would look like this:
Par-3's - 100 - 120 - 140 - 160 - 180
Par-4's - 200 - 220 - 240 - 260 - 280 - 300 - 320 - 340 - 360
Par-5's - 380 - 400 - 420 - 440
And that would be 4,860 yards.
I actually did specify a 200-yard par-4 for women at Streamsong (#16 Blue), but that would leave them with only the three par-3 holes instead of the five shown above. I honestly can't recall seeing a 200-yard par-4 for women anywhere else. What I hate worse than anything is when architects cram all the forward-tee yardages around the same length ... so that every par-3 is 110 to 125 yards, and every par-5 is 410-430.