Just to clarify - the post at the top of this page was by Mark Chaplin, posting from my home computer (he has been staying with me) using my account as he can't remember the login details for his.
Matt,
Flying in and out of Bristol and with your wife in tow, there's something to be said for not going to the Kent/Sussex coast and enjoying the Atlantic links and some heathland courses as well with the time/rounds you have.
Have you played golf in England before? If so what have you already played?
If this is the first (and maybe only) trip, then I think visiting the south-east is worth the time.
Of course as a confessed Deal homer I think the place is incredible and should be seen, but I also realise Bristol to Deal/Sandwich is a long way.
Mike W: Swinley is right near Sunningdale and Wentworth, a few miles north of Woking and its neighbours.
My reason for recommending West Sussex is that Matt wanted one course in the middle. If you journey into the London area, choosing a course - just one course - becomes one of the most maddening dilemmas known to man!
Considering your arrival and departure from Bristol, Matt, and your comment above, I'd say:
Arrive Bristol, play Burnham & Berrow and St Enodoc. (2-3 days inc some sightseeing)
Drive east, playing West Sussex en route to Rye, make a day of Rye, playing 36, including the jacket and tie lunch which is worth the effort for the experience. Rye has plenty of holes you'll be glad you saw twice, because they'll have made little sense the first time around. (2 days)
Play Deal and Sandwich (2 days - with all the Deal members on here you should manage 36 quite cheap holes with ease and Sandwich - if you can get on post-Open - is worth a day).
Return to Bristol via the heathlands, playing one course the afternoon of the day you leave Kent and another coursethe next morning before driving back to Bristol. Which heathland courses? I'd recommend Woking (great twilight deal you can make use of playing the afternoon you arrive in London area from Kent) and as a nice bit of variety from the many parkland/heathland courses with a similar character to Woking in that area I'd recommend you go with Walton Heath (Old) as your other - which is also handy to the M25 for you to get moving post-round and return to Bristol. (2 days)
So that's an 8-9 day trip hitting a bunch of different spots and not doubling back through areas you've already seen.
In the south west there is Padstow (near St Enodoc) as a great town to see, Rye is a lovely town, check out the White Cliffs of Dover on the way from Rye to Deal, visit Canterbury while around Deal/Sandwich, maybe swing by Stonehenge and Salisbury on the drive back to Bristol from London...
What's not to love about that?!