Having recently joined a club, I looked for:
1. A solid, strong golf membership with lots of walking members and a good junior program.
2. People who play golf in all sorts of weather (played today at 44 degrees and a 20 mph wind and there where plenty of others there as well) and enjoy being out with others.
3. As I have two girls ages 11 and 7, a pool. (if I had other community access this would not be a real consideration)
4. A stable, financially solid club that makes smart spending decisions based on need and not "want".
What this means to me is a place where i can play golf at the drop of a hat if I don't have a tee time, there are always regular "games" going off. We have a solid bar that's not too fancy for having drinks after a round and watching sports on the big screen, plus a small grill for sandwiches, hotdogs and burgers. The club does have full dining but it is not overly pretentious and offers good service for those occasions where we want to have a nice dinner. There are many social members who take advantage of this.
What we DO NOT HAVE:
Fitness Room - Workout at the gym!
Huge stone and white column main club house that could house a blimp
Extra large men's and women's locker rooms with own full service bar in each- We have one bar, share!
Shoe service/locker room attendant - Clean your own shoes
Bag boys who want to run a towel over my irons - Clean your own clubs, as you play, if you have dirty clubs after walking off 18, how did you hit the ball?
Valet parking -Park Your own car!
Tennis or Tennis Shop or Pro - Did have, no one played so they dug the courts up and they will be turned into a short game area in the near future.
Caddies - Carry Your own!
I'm sure there is more but our club operates more on the UK model than the really upscale USA model. It's a place to play golf, hang out on a dreary day, have a drink while watching the game, maybe play some cards in the locker room. I feel good that my kids have a safe place to swim, learn the game and hunt the occasional Easter egg while they are still young enough t think that is cool.