Kevin...
I've never been to Bandon, so I can't really comment on that part of your question. However, Pinehurst seems to getting lost a bit in translation. The resort and the town of Pinehurst really are one in the same. There isn't a large drive in and gated off area, like say Kiawah. You can walk right from the Carolina Hotel to downtown in no time flat. Some of the resort hotels are actually in the downtown area. Pine Needles, Mid Pines are literllly right down the road...perhaps even closer than Pinehurst #8 is from the Carolina hotel. Does that make sense?
To me, you are not really going to a resort...you are going to a town. And that town is completely and totally surrounded by quality golf course and golf is a way of life (or so it appears).
Anyway, here are some photos maybe this will help...maybe not.
Here is the actual downtown area of Pinehurst...right smack dab middle of town. Like I mentioned, you aren't going to a resort per se, you are going to a golf-centric town with historical roots that are quite unique.
Here are some shots of the legendary #2 course...
Here are a couple shots of #4...
People knock it for a few reasons (I think): the look of the pot bunkers and the fact it is Fazio trying to duplicate Ross' #2 course. Okay, I get that...but I really liked the course. If nothing else, you get a real Pinehurst feel with those greens.
Here are some shots of #8...
This is a really solid golf course. However, as you can see it is more "normal"...that is non-Pinehursty. However, I really liked the change of pace from the other Pinehurst courses and I thought it was a really good course to play. Not epic, not truly world class...but damn solid.
Here is a picture of the Carolina Inn...
Pine Needles is simply stellar Ross. I'll spare you the pictures, but it is stellar and minutes away from downtown Pinehurst, like 10 to 15 minutes.
Mid Pines (again I'll spare you pictures), but like Pine Needles 10 15 minutes away and really nice golf. Easier, more laid back Ross...but pure Ross nonetheless.
Now we all keep talking about Tobacco Road. It is like 30 minutes away from downtown Pinehurst...a bit of a trip. But here is why...
People either love this thing or hate it, but I think it is a must see golf course.
I hope this helps...I know it is hard to get your arms around without having seen the town...but it is good solid golf all over the place.
I can't recommend Pinehurst over Bandon for two reasons...I don't know your taste and I've never been to Bandon...but I do know that I expected a lot from Pinehurst and it delivered big time. BUT it is more than just the golf courses, it is history wrapped in a wonderful golf experience.