The whole AW thing has me a bit puzzled. I can see not doing it coming from this site/DG, as that may very well not be appropo. BUT, when the PGA was in Mpls. last year, I wanted to play Interlachen. I contacted the Pro there and he said "sure, you can play for $375 each." That's a bit too much for me, and my friends. So, I started to see if I had any contacts that knew someone that knew someone who was a member? Was that so wrong? Fortunately, a businessman in my town had a brother who is a member there. He was kind enough to give me the number of his brother, put in a heads up call for me, and let me know that his brother was a busy Dr., but he'd call me back. I made several calls, talked about some mutual connections, and asked if he minded hosting us. He said he would be delighted to, as he loved sharing the course with others.
I was thrilled as it was my first Ross and with him it only cost $150. Now, was that so wrong? If he'd said no, I would have understood. If you are a member at a prestigious private, would it not be enjoyable to host people from time to time? I know, the difference is you are asking as opposed to being asked, and I can see if you are in Jeff's postition as an employee at a club and get constantly bombarded, but still, is it hard to just say NO. Maybe I'm missing something, but I'll forever be greatful to the Interlachen member, and I think he really enjoyed the day as well. What more can you ask for. TW, AW (I guess).