Very interesting comments and thoughts.
I should come clean. I grew up on a small town with a simple 3,000 yards 9 hole golf course that received very little play. Straight from the car to the first tee and never a wait and 75 minutes rounds always walking. I was the only kid in junior and senior high who played golf and had the place to myself after school or before or after work in the summer (life-guarding at the "club" pool). As a result I played 90% of my golf alone with both my thoughts and game. I had some quick sucess with the game and frankly it was all I had to do - we didn't even have a movie theater in town. Playing alone became a habit that I carry to this day, and I still look outside the game for social interaction and deeper fellowship, preferring to play golf by myself in the evenings. Along those lines, it's not unusual for me to not play with other members of The Senior Tour that was profiled in Golf Digest's Ambush in the course of a year except for our annual trip. More than anything it is this habit that makes club membership less than ideal.
I would be remiss if I didn't cite the economics as well. I'm a commercial banker - not an investment banker and while I have no complaints $500/month is a lot of money though in today's world few are willing to admit it. For the most part I've lost interest in playing the game unless it's in the company of fellow architectural enthusiasts or at a golf course with a de minimis level of architectural interest. For example I'd trade a month of playing at my club for another round at Aiken Golf Club, much less a more reknowned and celebrated venue. Golf courses thrill me and always have. By comparison, the game is old hat, though decidedly more rumpled and faded these days!
Just a few random thoughts. Thanks for letting me share them.
Kindest regards,
Mike