If you start having officials make the call, you are in the realm of the other sports that have referees.
Garland:
I understand your sentiment. However, if a rules official (or referee, in match play) sees and infraction, he must act upon it. he has no choice, if he is a good rules official.
It is also true that sometimes players who know something about the rules try to take advantage of them. In watching the video of the Wie incident, I saw no indication that she was on the verge of slipping; just the opposite- she was disgusted by the shot, put her hand on her hip to pout, and droped the clubhead into the grass. Had she not done that, then used the club as a cane to help raise herself out of the muck, then there is no problem.
I see it happen all the time in amateur events. The rules official overexplains a rule before asking the right questions. For example, a rules offical might say, "you are penalized two shots for grounding your club in the hazard unless you were using the club as a cane to help with your balance." Guess what the player says next? "Well, that's what I was doing!" What then official should have askes was, "You dropped the club in the grass in the hazard. Why did you do that?"
I don't know if that was the case here. With all due respect to my good friend JVB, I have no doubt she deserved the penalty. And although one should take the player's sattement into account, one should not try to find ways to get him off the hook.