No, Patrick, never. I have actually been on the receiving end of an opponent cheering for my missed putt on the 18th hole, and I definitely considered it to be poor sportsmanship.
And yet, I also found it understandable.
I think that Azinger has been misunderstood in all of this. I believe what he was trying to say was that it is all right for fans to applaud at the conclusion of a hole when the U.S. has won because the Euros missed a putt. He did say that the Euros will cheer in this situation, and he further said, "They get it." He was complimenting the passion of the European fans, and trying to explain to the U.S. fans that they should encourage their team after a successful hole, as the European fans do, rather than sit on their hands and keep a respectful silence, as golf fans are universally taught to do when someone misses a putt. I believe he simply wanted to let U.S. fans know they were allowed to cheer for their team when the result of the hole was positive.
The way he expressed that opinion could certainly be construed as negative -- and Melvyn obviously took it that way -- but I think he was just trying to inject the same level of partisan support into the matches that the Euros have demonstrated for years. Azinger was very clear that he saw nothing wrong with the way European fans supported their team; he simply wanted his own partisans to know that it was all right to support the USA in the same way -- once the hole was completed.
Ryder Cup dynamics are so much different than ordinary match play scenarios. In a perfect world, there would be only respectful silence when a team loses a hole. Human emotions are difficult to bottle up, however, and as much as I disapproved of the expressed jubilation of that opponent who cheered when I missed a putt on the 18th hole, I truly believe he was emitting a spontaneous cheer for his team's good fortune rather than my own misfortune. He was caught up in the moment, and what he did didn't change the outcome of the match. My missing the putt changed the outcome. Such is life.