TEPaul,
I'm surprised that we never ran into each other as I played on a number of Compher Cup teams.
I've also wondered if our dads knew each other as both were active in competitive golf at the highest level.
As to my results, I sure don't have a picturesque swing, never did.
While I tend to drive the ball very well, I'm afraid to video my swing with my driver for fear that I'll see too many flaws and try to correct them.
Not too long ago I took a video lesson because I was hitting my irons so poorly. I didn't like what I saw. It was frightening. There were so many flaws I decided to work on a few of the basics. It took someone else, whom I've been playing with for about 20 years to point out a major mistake when we were playing in a member guest.
In terms of course management, I think one of the things you have to analyze is:
How sound is your strategy in the context of your abilities ?
You can formulate a great strategy, but, if you really can't execute it, it's worthless, or worse.
Prior to formulating a strategy I think you have to drink in all that the architect and elements present you. Part of that revolves around your powers of observation and your understanding of the relationship between the features and their influence on your play
The more data you receive the better positioned you are to formulate an intelligent, realistic strategy.
All too often I see golfers attempt shots beyond and/or well beyond their ability, and worse yet, failure to execute those shots gets them into more trouble.
To a degree, I also possess the Neil Regan/Walter Mitty approach to playing shots.
Neil likes to putt from up to 150 yards from a green, and, he's good at it.
Likewise, I like to invent and execute unique shots.
To me, it's the one thing that brings me the most pleasure, carrying off a shot that few would think of playing, let alone trying.
Almost anyone can hit a 7-iron from 150 yards, but, try hitting all the clubs down from a 7-iron for that shot. It's fun, downright challenging.
Having FUN has to be one of the foundations of our playing.
How we go about having fun is up to each individual, but, for me, I like creating diverse shots.
Years ago I spent some time with Ken Venturi and he showed me how to use EVERY club in the bag to hit the ball from the same spot. It was quite informative and inspirational. I never dreamed of hitting the shot he attempted with more than one or two clubs, yet, he hit it with all 14, proving to me that it's not how you get there, but the result of getting there that counts.
A few years ago I hit what I considered to be a very creative 3rd shot on a par 5.
I holed it out for an eagle.
Rich Lerner from the Golf Channel told me it was the most amazing shot he ever saw.
When my partner saw that I was aiming away from the hole he yelled, "what are you doing, are you crazy?". But, I knew that the way the green sloped that I could never get close to the hole by aiming at it.
So, I aimed at a mound of rough behind the green. The ball hit the mound, bounded backwards, rolled through the rough, through the fringe, onto the green and into the hole. It was one of the most rewarding shots I ever hit.
I like the idea of being creative, irrespective of whether the shot comes off exactly as planned. I don't always execute the shot called for, but, I love the creative side of formulating a shot.
Everyone hits mediocre and/or bad shots and while it annoys me to do so, the cardinal sin in my mind, is making a mental error. That really upsets me.
There's NO reason to make a mental error.
I've played with a group of about 20 guys for 45 years.
With some of them I could lower their scores by more than a few strokes if they'd listen to me with respect to understanding what lies before them, planning the shot, club selection and getting comfortable with those decisions. But, I see them trying to hit shots that have about one chance in 100 to 1,000 of being successful.
While we all aspire/strive to hit the "shot of our career" we have to plan to hit the shot we're capable of hitting "that" day. And, I think that's a key element in sound course management.
The next time you're 10, 20 or more yards from a green, in addition to hitting your lob wedge, try a 4-iron, 6-iron and 8-iron and see how comfortable you are with the shot and how the margins of error increase or decrease with each club.
Go out one afternoon and "practice" on the course.
Don't focus on score, focus on alternative techniques and see if you don't have more fun.