I would be very happy to stay a member of Bearwood Lakes for the rest of my life - combination of a superb, very scenic and well-conditioned course, lovely clubhouse with great course views over the course, a sensible policy re different groups (seniors, women, general roll ups etc) and being able to book your own tee times, decent food and friendly service by staff to members and visitors, very friendly members and an active inter-club-match schedule. Also, you can get food until 9 in the evening - some nice clubs in the area are not even open at that time - my shoes were locked in at Huntercombe and we were warned to keep them in the car at Worplesdon as it might be shut when we were finished - it was! I really like several other courses in the vicinity (mainly the heathland tracks) like Hankley, West Hill, New Zealand, Swinley and The Berkshire - the latter is nearby and has 36 holes but I can't imagine that being a member would be as pleasant an experience as Bearwood - as several people have mentioned it having quite an elitist and unfriendly attitude towards visitors. As much as I love links courses, although my experience is a bit limited, I can't imagine playing one links all year round - although having, say, Saunton Sands as a country membership - 36 holes for circa £300-£400 year would be a great option.
I have got very limited experience outside of the UK but from what I have seen, several of the Melbourne courses look like great options - Tobacco Road looks fantastic, and I would love to play Pine Valley. I also thought that Praia D'El Rey in Portugal would be a great compromise between stunning coastal and nicely designed inland holes - although several friends are raving about Monte Rei on the Algarve and it is on my must play list.