Mayday,
By all means play Gullane#1, a great experience.
As an aside, after you and your wife have had dinner, drive up Gullane Hill, park the car and walk across to the seventh tee. You will have a 360 degree view of East Lothian. I am not sure what month I did this with my wife, possibly earlier in the year. The sun had not quite set, but the moon was visible and the sky was ablaze in a reddish glow. We both thought we were in Brigadoon.
Richard,
Luffness is a good course and the dining room sets the tone of the club. Our good friend Rihc Goodale calls it the place for "Muirfield wannabees"... a cruel description for some rather nice people.
Bob