I think Indian Creek tops my list though I haven't been to Seminole or some other crowd favorites. But TCC, Merion and Pine Valley are worthy considerations as well.
Dan, nothing worse than a trickle out of a big shower head--I guess you need the old school big pipes and lots of flow. I don't mind old tiles or slate--but clean is important. The shower heads at Rolling Green are big in the Philadelphia Shower School Style and have lots of water pressure; probably the best out there. The only problem there is the soap and drains are too hairy/skanky
Big points lost for those two gross out issues. I like your clubhouse, Dan. I think the beams look great and the lockers elegant--maybe a little too much so. Can't beat the beat up old metal lockers with battleship grey paint got on sale at the Army-Navy store.