You should definitely see either Governor's Club or Raleigh CC - both gentlemen are as good as you'll ever meet. And the courses will both stand out as highlights of the trip.
I second Legacy as a nice mid-level priced course.
Your dates will most likely leave Pine Needles or Mid Pines out...they will be charging $150-175 for the spring season. However, it would be worth going around PN just to see the work done by Fought this past summer.
Some of the other mid-priced courses that you may or may not have heard about:
- Carolina: probably avoid, but some of the holes are interesting. The greens can get downright silly (12 immediately comes to mind) and there are quite a few blind shots that are tough on the first timer - that leads to a sloooow pace of play. (Palmer)
- Talamore: nothing special, but depending on your group they might enjoy it because its very straightforward (Rees).
- Beacon Ridge: very hilly with small greens and moderately tight fairways. Some in our group liked, others didn't - I didn't really care for it but there are some good holes.
- Foxfire: similar to Beacon Ridge but it usually is in better condition - not a bad addition
- Little River: Have not played it.
- Pinewild: They have 36 holes that are supposedly pretty good. Semi-private - I have not played it.
If I was choosing 5, considering a budget of $500 or so for fees it would be:
- Pine Needles or Mid Pines (play one of the classics at a steeper price)
- Tobacco Road
- Southern Pines
- Legacy
- Hyland Hills
Try to squeeze a day in the Raleigh/Durham area and play either Raleigh CC, or Governors Club/Finley. I would definitely get Finley in but I have a biased interest there.
Have Fun!
Pete